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10 Life Lessons College Has Taught Me So Far

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Go Badgers!
My friends and I painted our stomachs for the Badger Game!

For my final blog here on College Fashion, I’ve decided to write about something a bit different: what one and a half years of college have taught me so far.

The main purpose of this particular blog is to help readers younger than myself – there is so much to learn in college that it’s helpful to hear from someone who has been there already! College has really forced me to grow up, so I thought I’d share some of my experiences and focus on the college part of College Fashion. Enjoy!

1. It’s OK to change your major.

I have changed my major twice now, from history to retailing, and now back to history. I think that this was an important part of learning what I want to do with my life. I had always wanted to try retailing, but I tried it and it wasn’t for me. Had I not tried it, I always would have wondered. Now I am volunteering with kids and in a major that I love. Finding out who you are is part of what college is all about.

2. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes – that’s how you learn!

Freshman year was great and I have a really amazing group of friends to prove it. However, I will say that I did a lot of things back then that now make me say “what was I thinking?” I’ve realized that’s OK. That’s what freshman year is for: to test the waters and make mistakes. Your friends will stick by you through everything, and you will grow as a person because of it.


My very first night in Madison as a freshman.

3. The best remedy for heartbreak is spending time with your best friends.

“I was so lost back then, but with a little help from my friends, I’ve seen the light at the tunnel at the end” is one of my favorite lyrics. I’m sure most of you know it from the Lily Allen song, but “Smile” always reminds me of the Glee episode where they are learning to smile for the yearbook photo. (Yes, I am a “Gleek,” and I embrace it fully.) Either way, that lyric is totally true.

I don’t want to get TOO detailed here, but let’s just say my roommates have stood by me through every boy problem I have had. They’ve helped me through it all, made me see that I can do so much better, and have helped me believe that I can someday find the kind of person I DO want to be with. Friends are the BEST remedy for a broken heart. Boys may come and go, but your friends will always be there for you through it all.

Aside from leaning on your friends, there’s always retail therapy. When I was going through some boy problems, let’s just say the new Forever 21 opened at the perfect time. And I’ll leave it at that. The moral of this story: instead of blasting “All by Myself” and laying in bed, you should get out, see the glass as half-full, and spend time with the people who love you.

4. Find your ideal study method.

Thanks to my psychology professor freshman year, I’ve found the exam studying method that works best for me. First, I go through my notes and write open-ended questions that correspond to my notes. Then, using my notes, I answer all the questions in full sentences like I am taking an open-notes short answer test. Then I rewrite the questions and answer them again without the notes. This way, I can see what I remember well and what I need to study again. I swear by it and I got an A in psychology to prove it.

However, my study method won’t work for everyone or every subject. We all learn in different ways, and we all have different methods that will work best for us. The point is to really think about what kind of learner you are. I am a very visual person and writing things out and seeing them in question form really helps me. Learn how you study best and stick to it for success!

5. Take care of your health, and you won’t gain weight.

Yay for not gaining the freshman 15! My health is a priority, and I follow what I like to call “the lifestyle change.” The lifestyle change is how I keep myself healthy without using the word “diet.” I hate that word, because the only way a diet works is if you keep up with it the rest of your life – and who can commit to that?

Once the New Year beings, I am reinstating the lifestyle change in which I focus on keeping myself healthy, not on losing a few pounds. This includes increasing the amount I exercise. For those of you who don’t exercise, start. It’s actually incredible how much better you feel when you do.

Either way, when you focus on health, instead of on weight, you will see positive changes. If weight is all you think about, you’re not only neglecting your health, but setting yourself up for failure. Diets don’t work, but healthy lifestyle changes do.

6. Get a job.

Best thing I’ve done here. The phrase “poor college student” is totally real. Between the apartment payments and student loans, I needed a job when I started college. I’m so happy I found a good one – I love working at the library, my coworkers are great, and I make enough money to keep me afloat. I recommend everyone get a job while in school if possible. It’s a great way to be independent from your parents and gain valuable work experience for the future.

7. Use a planner.

So here is what I am involved in: I have this blog, student organizations, volunteering for those student orgs, tutoring, work and class. Suffice to say I need to stay organized so I do not forget to do anything. That’s why my daily planner is my best friend. It is in terrible shape since I’ve used it so much and I am so pumped for my 2010 one. My best advice: write down everything you have to do, and make sure to fit in time to eat and exercise!

8. Take time out for yourself.

“Me nights” are something I do often – they’re nights where I throw my books down and do what I want to do – give myself a pedicure, watch The Office with my roommates, or just watch a movie in bed. I need these every once and a while in order to stay sane, and I’m betting you do too! Do NOT feel guilty about taking “me” time. Everyone has to take care of themselves once in a while, and it’s even more important to do during college.

9. Keep your life balanced.

As a Libra, I am obsessed with balance. I like to get good grades, but I also like to go out on the weekends. I like to spend time with boys, but I make sure that I have time with my friends. I love ice cream nights with the girls (I live across the street from McDonalds!) but I also love taking some me-time. Balance is SO key to staying sane in college, and making time for everyone and everything makes you a well-rounded person. Strive for balance in your life and you’ll go far.

10. Always keep looking forward.

The main thing that I have learned these past few years is that you have to let go of what happened to you in the past. Let go of that boy in high school that you are not even friends with anymore. Let go of a petty fight with a friend. Let go of that failing grade on the last midterm. If you are stuck in the past and carrying baggage, you are not going to be approachable. Things happen, but they are just a tiny blip on the radar in the grand scheme of things. Enjoy who you are and enjoy what’s to come.

There are my words of wisdom. I have learned so much and I still have more semesters to go. I have felt myself grow up immensely and I am glad I got a chance to share that with you. Thanks for a great semester!

Peace and love,
Meggy

Your Thoughts?

As always: What do you think? What is the most important thing you have learned so far in college? What are your words of wisdom? Tell us in the comments section!

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39 Responses to “10 Life Lessons College Has Taught Me So Far”

  1. 1
    December 26th, 2009 at 5:35 pm

    This was a really nice and different post. I really appreciate it and agree with everything you have here! Especially the planner… without my planner, I would be completely lost!

    :) Great job, hope you’ve had fun here!

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    December 26th, 2009 at 5:43 pm

    After just a year and a half of college, I think you’ve really discovered the main lessons to be learned from college :)
    I wish I had figured these out as quickly as you did (I’m in grad school now and sometimes I think I still forget some of these)

  3. 3
    December 26th, 2009 at 5:44 pm

    Wow. This is an awesome article. I agree with this stuff 100%. I am about to begin my senior year. I have been involved in a sorority, volunteering, worked part time, went to school full time, and commuted to school while living with my parents, and I would have to say that this has been the most stressful time of my life. My favorite suggestion was taking time out for yourself. That will, without a doubt, keep you from losing your mind while in college! Great article.

  4. 4
    December 26th, 2009 at 6:34 pm

    Thanks for this post :) Great suggestions!

  5. 5
    December 26th, 2009 at 7:04 pm

    this post is so helpful.
    i just finished my first sem of my freshman year and college has been a huge rollercoaster.

    i think im gunna start following #10 constantly. i shud really start fresh and stop thinking about the bad stuff that’s happened this year.

    amazinggg article! =)

  6. 6
    December 26th, 2009 at 7:40 pm

    This post was really helpful! I’m going to take this article very seriously and use your tips to better my own life! :)

  7. 7
    December 26th, 2009 at 8:07 pm

    This was great- I’ll certainly keep it in mind for the new year!

  8. 8
    December 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm

    This is a good post. I’ve lost my full ride FOUR TIMES because of technicalities (clerical errors, professors mistakes and number of credit hours-I’m actually in the process of attempting to get it reinstated, again.) One piece of additional advice, know how to work within your university’s system.

    For example, my university does not tell scholarship recipients how their scholarship works, you have to search it out (thus, why I did not know that my scholarship had increased the number of credit hours I had to take). Be sure you know who to talk to, I found that my advisors and a majority of financial aid advisors know nothing, but the people in registration know everything. (Is this normal in other colleges?) I’d also say that almost everything can be worked out, so if you’re feeling down, don’t give up hope. College is a business, you just have to figure out how to make the business cater to its customers.

  9. 9
    December 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm

    Great post, I’ll have to try that study suggestion, seems like it would work pretty well :)

  10. 10
    December 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm

    that was great. everytips are so realistic and helpful
    thanks.

  11. 11
    December 26th, 2009 at 9:05 pm

    I loved the “me-time”… I will start working on it as soon as possible!
    Great article, happy holidays!

  12. 12
    December 26th, 2009 at 10:15 pm

    I enjoyed reading this so much — so much of it resonated with me, in terms of things that I live by and advice that I hope to live by in my final three semesters at school. I’m so sad to see you go! Have a wonderful rest of college and know you’re going to be missed as a blogger at CF!

  13. 13
    December 26th, 2009 at 10:42 pm

    Thanks! it’s just what i need. This past semester was my first year in college, and it didn’t turn out as i expected(not much friends, no boys, poor grades). But i’ll keep what you say in mind for the next semester. Thanks again, and happy holiday :)

  14. 14
    December 26th, 2009 at 10:43 pm

    I absolutely LOVE this, Meggy. Seriously, it made me a little emotional, haha! Such good advice. :)

  15. 15
    December 27th, 2009 at 12:50 am

    This made me tear up a bit. Im a freshman in college and these will be words of wisdom that i most def will follow :)

    Good luck in your future

    <3

  16. 16
    December 27th, 2009 at 1:13 am

    this is great! im a senior at marquette (whats up wisconsin!) and this was awesome to read…makes me teary about leaving college after this semester :(

  17. 17
    December 27th, 2009 at 1:56 am

    Very sweet. :)

    (((((gooooooo GOPHERS!)))))))

    hehe i just had to.

  18. 18
    December 27th, 2009 at 3:46 am

    This is a very sweet post. I love how you are going to help all the younger girls, who will start college very soon. This is well just so sweet.

    I have been in college for 2 1/2 years and I gotta say I totally agree with everything you wrote.

    J

  19. 19
    December 27th, 2009 at 5:08 am

    Wow, what a great post! Your ten points really hit the nail about what is important in college life.
    Thanks for taking the time and sharing what you learned.

  20. 20
    December 27th, 2009 at 6:58 am

    Great post! No sophomore slump for you, I can tell! Good job with all your articles :)

  21. 21
    December 27th, 2009 at 8:56 am

    oh wow! thx so much! i’m in my senior year in high school and this is going to help me a whole lot in college! thanks again!

  22. 22
    December 27th, 2009 at 9:25 am

    Thanks for this post Meggy! I’m applying for colleges next year, and this was such a help! I’ve bookmarked it and will read it again when it’s time for me to go away to college.

    This is your final post? How come? I’ll miss your articles, you did such a good job here on CF.net.

    Good luck with whatever you’re doing after this.

    x

  23. 23
    December 27th, 2009 at 12:21 pm

    i really like this article!! Your advice is all soo true. I’m a “super senior” and i can definitely say those are lessons all college girls need to know! College can be overwhelming and confusing at times. and the 10 topics you discussed really helped me through the last few years.

  24. 24
    December 27th, 2009 at 12:24 pm

    Love it! I’ve changed my major about 3 times and I’m glad I did. Now I’m about to finish college majoring in something that I love.

  25. 25
    December 27th, 2009 at 3:06 pm

    Great advice!
    I’m a senior, and I would have to add that you should get to know your professors, and let your professors get to know you. It has worked wonders for my college experience-I wish I had figured this out sooner!

  26. 26
    December 27th, 2009 at 7:15 pm

    Great life lessons Meggy!

  27. 27
    December 28th, 2009 at 10:48 am

    Aww, loved the article. I’m a senior entering college next year and I’m definetly keeping this in mind. Good luck, I can see your future’s gonna be a bright one.

  28. 28
    December 28th, 2009 at 12:11 pm

    Thanks for this post! This is my second semester (in January) and this was really helpful and inspirational :).

  29. 29
    December 29th, 2009 at 6:33 am

    Learning not to overcommit with too many activities (i did this in high school – had tutoring to go to and all that..now its over)… and its my last year next year and i am looking forward to it….. and timetabling better with my classes and other important (like time for exercise, work, study, timeout etc..)..

    speaking of which i MUST get a planner, coz next year is going to be a busy one! Havent had the chance to think about it till now! Oh also i changed my major three times and now i love the major that i am studying (its occupational health and safety related, since i have a huge interest in ‘workplace’ ).

    And i do agree to the posts above me as well, this is a really good one. Some stage will pass this to my brother!

  30. 30
    December 29th, 2009 at 3:15 pm

    Great advice, Meggy! Will be bookmarking this for the next 3.5 years of my college career :). Take care, God bless, and keep writing, please!

  31. 31
    December 29th, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    I love this article, it gave me a great insight on the things I learned on my first semester. It’s been a blast, but I had fun and its surprising that so many things you mentioned here that I went through as well: heartbreak, friends, finding my own study method etc. It goes to show that we are all alike as college girls, even if I’m as far away as from Indonesia.

    I also wrote something about study methods, how I found mine, and an alternative to the classic visual-auditory-kinesthetic learning style theory that some might find useful. Check my blog if you want to read it.

  32. 32
    January 5th, 2010 at 9:46 pm

    This article was amazing and is going to be super helpful for me in the long run! I haven’t started college yet but lately I have been really nervous about it and I know I will have some difficult times but its all about learning and growing up and this article is going to help make things a lot easier my freshman year in college…So thank you very much! :)

    P.S.
    good luck on all of your future adventures in college

  33. 33
    January 27th, 2010 at 2:42 pm

    It is so true about having a good planner. I would be lost without mine. The best thing I have learned so far about dealing with college is that when I am feeling like my life is WAY too crazy, take a 5 min time out and meditate.

  34. 34
    August 21st, 2010 at 4:42 pm

    I am moving into my dorm room at UW-Madison exactly one week from today. I loved seeing pictures of your experience there! I am so excited to live the badger life!! :)

  35. 35
    August 23rd, 2010 at 7:59 pm

    I am too moving in to Madison on Saturday and loved the blog, it is exactly what I needed and was glad to know that some of my worries were real and understandable! great blog :)

  36. 36
    November 25th, 2010 at 3:49 pm

    I can’t wait to go to college! It sounds great!

  37. 37
    November 5th, 2011 at 12:54 am

    I agree with you 100 percent on getting a job but since we are in a recession now, it is hard to find a job.

  38. 38
    December 8th, 2011 at 6:12 pm

    This is how we must be. Don’t be afraid tom make mistake because that is how we learn……Awesome article

  39. 39
    May 31st, 2012 at 11:13 pm

    Wow I agree 100% with what you have written. I’m a pre med student and I find that taking time for yourself is a must or else you will run yourself ragged. Well written and totally relatable.

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